Learning to swim: Tips to help adults

As it turns out, I was not the only adult who never learned how to swim as a child. Many adults are interested in learning to swim but are reluctant due to fear. I no longer see the pool as this scary place and can share a few things I’ve learned. Below are a few tips to help adults interested in learning how to swim.IMG_0833

Private vs group lessons

I’ve been fortunate enough to experience both. Group lessons can be helpful depending on your goals. Adults learning to swim who aren’t fearful of the water would probably do well in group lessons. Some adults and children do really well with group lessons because they are motivated by their peers.  Most group lessons are typically small groups about 10 or under. Private lessons are a wise decision if you are extremely fearful since you will have the instructors undivided attention.  For children, private lessons may be helpful if they are also fearful or have difficulty taking instruction in a group setting.

What to wear

Swimming shorts for males and bathing suits for females tend to work just well. I have found that department store bathing suits and 2 piece suits don’t hold up that well in chlorine water. The type of one piece suits worn by swim teams works best in the pool. These suits are made of a material that typically withstands the waters of the pool. Specialty stores like Omega sports, have reasonable priced suits and seem to be knowledgeable about sizing. Swim suit sizing tend to be much different than typical women sizes.  Goggles can come in handy if you are like me and don’t particularly like getting water in your eyes. A variety of styles and colors can be purchased from just about any store that sells sporting goods. Early on I would simply focus on a pair that fits and protects the eyes. As you become more advanced, and you will, you may want to consider getting a specific type or brand.

Swim caps

The question of whether or not my hair gets wet often comes up as a topic when I mention swimming. Now I am sure this greatly contributes to the number of women not swimming. This is a serious subject that has impacted many African American women and contributes to their reluctance to learn to swim, myself included. Believe me when I tell you that I wouldn’t even consider swimming when I wore permed hair. I can go on and on about how my hair was a factor in my decision not to participate in many activities, but I digress. The good news is that there are many styles and sizes of swimming caps to choose from and I have tried a few. I no longer have permed hair but still prefer my hair to remain as dry as possible. I have found the best variety while shopping online since retail stores usually stock a limited supply.

Additional accessories

In terms of other accessories, your swim instructor will assist you based on your goals, what you are learning, and your skill level. I found fins to be extremely helpful while attempting to learn freestyle swimming. They really propel you through the water and make it less challenging in the beginning.

Location

There are several options to choose from when deciding where to take classes. Gyms, recreational centers, swim clubs, private pools or your local YMCA. Depending on your schedule, location and budget will determine the best option for you. I have experience with lessons at recreations centers and my local YMCA.  I was pleased with all the facilities as well as the variety of class offerings.  It is often helpful to speak with the aquatics director as well as a current or former student.

So there you have it. Have no fear if you are an adult learning to swim! The most important part is to find a place where you are comfortable with the environment and instructor. Swimming is one of the few activities that can be enjoyed throughout the course of a lifespan. You can swim from early childhood through the golden years. It really doesn’t matter if you learn to swim as a preschooler, teenager, young adult or over 40 like me. Everyone starts at the same place…The intersection of RELAX and BREATHE.

 

 

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Learning to Swim Over 40

Wow! Who said this was going to be a good idea? This is more about overcoming a fear swim 3than it is about learning to swim. Forty years is a long time to carry a fear. What was I thinking when I agreed to get in a pool at this age? Looking back, and I do mean a long way back on my learning to swim journey, I had visions of swimming laps effortlessly after maybe a few sessions. I didn’t anticipate it taking long to learn all the basic stuff like breathing properly, the proper way to kick, and blah blah blah. Then the first days of swim lessons arrived and I realized that I had no clue. Just because you get in the water with all the right gear on doesn’t make you a swimmer. You may look cute, but a swimmer you are not. I knew I wasn’t ready to go to the deep end of the pool, but what I didn’t know was that I would spend the next several months hanging out in the very shallow end of the pool–and by shallow I mean 3ft and less. What I mean when I say 3ft or less is that I spent a considerable amount of time hanging out near the wall and rope area since you can never be too cautious. I never knew there was so much to learn about breathing, floating on your back and kicking.

I finally got off the wall and explored other areas of the pool once I finally realized I could simply stand up whenever I felt unsure of something.  Keep in mind that the pool is only 4ft deep and since I am a few inches over 5ft the water would only be chest level. Yeah, I would constantly remind myself of this fact to convince myself I would not drown. Now that’s easier said than done. Although I remained skeptical, I often gave myself secret pep talks before getting in the pool. After spending another lifetime working on kicking and getting comfortable floating, it was time to put everything together. I began working on swimming freestyle just like it appeared everyone else was doing when they showed up to the pool to lap swim. OK, not so fast, it sounded good but there is just something about connecting all the dots that didn’t click quite as fast as I wanted. So after seeing someone swimming the breast stroke it only made sense that I would try it out too. Alas, something I could do and not feel like I was too old to even be in the pool. After what felt like another forever, I was finally comfortable enough to venture into the lap pool.

Yay! I am finally in the lap pool, but man oh man, it was DEEP.  I mean really DEEP! Time for another pep talk. After trying it out, using a flotation belt, swim instructor assistance and lifeguards nearby I might be convinced I’m not going to die. After another forever of perfecting my breaststroke and getting acclimated to being in deep water, I am swimming. I mean really swimming in the deep end without a flotation device, unassisted and not holding the wall. swim 1

Learning to swim over 40 has been the most challenging and rewarding thing I’ve done in many years. I now realize that the swimming part is easy and actually has been from day one. The trusting and believing is the challenge. Persistence is key. Each day little by little I learned to trust myself more and fear less. As my trust level rose the fear factor went down. This experience has been a constant battle of the mind and a mental exercise. Not only has learning to swim increased my confidence in the pool but outside of the pool as well. I know that if I have the courage to do something I’ve feared for over 40 years there are simply no limits to what I can do outside of the pool.  The only limits are those I place on myself.

If you don’t know how to swim and are considering embarking on this journey, it is never too late. Remember to get out of your own way. Consider that learning to swim is not just a matter of exercise it is also a safety issue.  For more information on the importance of learning to swim check out this article in Essence magazine.

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Staying active with children in tow

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Well it’s official, summer vacation has begun for my eleven-year-old son. In between summer camps and time with family, what shall we do? Getting workouts done is still a must.  Well, we could go for another one of those very long short distance bike rides where we stop every few minutes for water. I know he means well but when you are hoping to sneak in an 8-mile bike ride things can get a little dicey. I’ve learned that while I am not able to keep my routine workout or schedule, we can still accomplish a lot and have fun. Well, a little fun on some days. In addition to biking, there are other great activities such as swimming, hiking, a group fitness class, or going for a walk/run that you and your kids can enjoy as a family.  There are a few things you can do to make sure these activities are filled with laughs and less crying (and I don’t mean the kids either).

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  • Going for a bike ride or jog on the trail is a great way to burn calories. Prepping in advance is essential to making these successful activities. Start by having completely filled water bottles, explaining the bike or walking route and assuring them IMG_1361that lunch or snack will follow definitely helps. Going out on the trails late morning is the ideal time. By then most people have cleared it to head off to work and it’s also late enough so that everyone can sleep in and finish up with the ride just in time for a snack or early lunch. This is a great time to practice interval training. Make it fun by giving them a short distance to run and follow-up by a brisk walk and repeat. When you return to the trail see if you are able to increase your run distance before having to walk. Not to mention, if you decide to bike and they are still learning etiquette while riding on the trails you probably won’t get too many glaring eyes or near miss collisions.
  • The pool can also be a saver if your child is a pretty independent swimmer. While you are swimming a few laps they can get in a swim with you and maybe even work on their stroke/technique. It’s a good idea to build in enough time at the end so they are able to just have fun and play in the water before leaving. Did you know swimming is a total body workout and one of the top activities for burning calories?
  • Taking an exercise class together is a great way to get in a workout and maybe even be a team. Participating in family boot camp classes or Zumba will give you the opportunity to get in a total body workout. These classes are a great way to challenge you and perhaps try something new. Keep in mind that if you have younger children some of these classes may last an hour. It fine to leave early because it’s all about having fun. Managing expectations and being supportive is what’s important when starting a new activity.
  • Hiking is a great way to get to in exercise and explore at the same time. Hiking is about more than exercising and is learning and bonding experience. We’ve learned so much IMG_1847during hiking about the outdoors as well as ourselves while hiking. I’ve even been able to overcome some of my own fears and be simply amazed at how courageous my son has become.  Packing snacks and dressing for the occasion is critical.
  • It also helps to have incentives to take part to get started without a lot of fuss and opposition. Although I would much rather not see electronics while I am outside, I must admit, initially, the DS was a life saver while going for walks. Apparently you are able to collect game coins to use while playing simply by turning the device on while you are walking. Finding friends to go along for a group adventure has always been a motivator, a great way to explore and spend time with my son.

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Initially, the thought of participating in some of these activities with my son seemed daunting and even got off to a rocky start. There have been many times I questioned what sane person would even consider taking this on since a headache seemed to outweigh the benefits. However, by the end of what sometimes appears is a “what are you thinking” kind of an ordeal, I am always proud that we stick it out.  I know I certainly gain a lot from our experiences and think he does too. Now, let’s see what this summer has in store.

What are some ways you have found to stay active with a child in tow?

 

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